Inspired from Faithless by Joyce Carol Oates p.184

“For this is a fact I’ve learned that has surprised me a little: we come to love our parents more as we grow older together, in a kind of jolting lockstep. Realizing at the midpoint of our lives, looking at them looking anxiously at us, My God, We’re in this together.”

Mirrors

We are born loving them, trusting them
They are our first loves
Our Alpha our Omega
And all the letters in between

In time we judge more, love less
Disappointed with trust
We question
The foundations we grew upon

In loving others
our affection for
Oedipus and Electra
are replaced

They die loving us
Trusting us,
imploring forgiveness
From us…not for them

We are left with a legacy
For our children to explore
first teachers, first companions
Each the other’s reflection.

Lisa Albright Ratnavira 1-27-06